Resentment

Carrie Fisher said:


"Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die."

This is very VERY TRUE! There is all this hatred and animosity aimed at another person but it is brewing and festering inside of YOU! If you don't find a way to purge those feelings by venting they will surely start to rot and cause other problems by hanging around.


Its only natural and a part of human nature to have feelings like resentment and anger but its what we DO with them, that determines whether it is going to affect us and the people surrounding us positively or negatively. Pretending like they don't exist or ignoring them and hoping they will simply "go away" is not a wise solution- as it never goes away unless you process it.


The best revenge against someone you despise is to be happy and healthy and successful. Which means freeing them from your thoughts and mind. And ridding them from having any further control over your thoughts, emotions, happiness... your life.


When your enemy comes to realize that you have come to the realization that "they just don't matter" and you don't care (truly) anymore- well, there is no worse feeling for a decrepid person, who loves schadenfraude, to have.


OH and if you want bonus points- if you can actually get to the point that you wish good thoughts for them. Well, thats a whole different level of warfare.